Do you ever wonder why you are sad, unhappy or walk around on the earth angry? Is it time to understand how to change your negative thoughts, truly love yourself and take control of your life to become the person YOU WANT to be? This book will outline the discussion of how these feeling begin and how you can transform your thinking. The journey to personal happiness is a road lined with questions, issues, concerns, fears, smiles, laughter, tears and hours of introspection. I wasn’t afraid of the longest journey because, I felt the ME I wanted to be, was in a standoff with the ME that was derived from external emotional intelligence. This book is my way of helping people who neglect themselves and struggle to find the real person they need to become. It’s okay to not to feel like yourself, for now and blame isn’t the name of the game; self-love is the only aim. Any self-abusive behavior can be negated from your life because there is so much abundance of love and opportunity waiting for you.Never stop believing in who you really know you are so turn and face those negative emotions. Those negative thoughts spin around each and every day. Let’s shut them out. Those thoughts are negative emotional chemistry. Self-talk and deep thinking are very valuable to a healthy existence in our life.